Deciding on Excellence


Have you been searching everywhere for something to truly transform your life, but have not found the opportunity to squelch the mediocrity? It's not your fault. The physical plane holds lots of opportunity. You are most likely not an expert of Neuro Linguistic Programming, EFT, Law of Attraction, Self-Development Coach, or the master of any other modality. So it is likely most of the rest of the human race is not as well. You may have attended many classes or seminars and temporarily come away feeling great, some ideas you will ultimately decide to apply to your life, but then after a short while losing that positive feeling after a few hours, days, to a week or even a month from now. Heaven knows there is much to be offered and learned out there in the physical world. So how do we decide and begin to know what will truly work for us?

Let's begin with some facts. Do you know that only 3% of the people on this planet actually live the life they truly want? People will give a multitude of reasons as to why they are not finding the desired results, or the limitation being labeled as such, "Tomorrow I will" or "I have to wait until I can afford it in a month or two" While these reasons are all logical and reasonable there is no amount of money that can buy what you are searching for and that is deciding to pull up and create excellence for your life. We spend lots of money on things that do absolutely nothing for us.

Now, please let me explain something so there is no confusion. There is no such thing as perfect, and I can hear all of you perfectionist saying, "What?" The truth is you are truly missing out if all you are only focused on chasing after perfectionism. Why not choose to pursue excellence instead? Now I like a job well done also, things orderly and planned out but remaining flexible and open as well as the next person, but perfect? That's just not real. In fact it's stunts personal evolution.


To decide on excellence takes some fortitude, commitment, and courage. Do you really want it? How badly? What is truly obtainable? My master neuro linguistic training goes into inquiry mode. What does it look like to you? How will you know when it is achieved? I can tell you truthfully that all of these questions will be answered once you decide to become excellent by definition. Old habits give way to new ones, once you make the definite committed decision to quit talking yourself out of mediocrity, you will learn there were a lot of things you didn't think you could do that you actually did!

In my line of work I am honored to work with all people, from various walks of life that are coming perhaps for a single focused issue or more complexities. For example, they may not realize why they cannot appear to excel in life because once they get going towards something they truly desire, all seems to come to a sudden and revolting halt. People can never seem to get out of the rut or hamster wheel they have seemingly been running on. (self-limiting beliefs) Once we are able to create an awareness about what is actually happening in terms of behavior, perceptions, or beliefs, to decide to move out of that old way of thinking and into new light by choosing to release those old habits or patterns of behavior, well off they go! They are happy to be able to apply what they have found to many other areas of their life and they are content with this going forward.

There are still two more groups of people. One is deciding that everything spiritual is enough. Seeking out affirmations, meditation coaching and positive thinking alone. This is all great if that were all that they needed and desired for their life. Their lives are now topped off with spiritual beliefs that will go on to hold them to more positive and moving views of nirvana for their chosen walk of life. This is all good, but is there more?

Yes. Emphatically, there is. You may hear it as a gentle whisper in your ear, that tells you there is something more, and encourages you to seek your gifts both spiritually on the plane of created reality and connect them. The grain of sand in your shoe that becomes the problem and issues of your life, but you decide to continue the walk on by choice, until one day it becomes almost impossible to walk. When you learn to take off the shoe and give it a shake, you lose the irritation the amazing result of that is a smile returns to your face. There is no more restriction or pain from the past and life is viewed worth living again!

Is it? Is that enough. Or is there more to be found.

The last group of people that I have discovered and worked with are the unique few that have decided to risk all to achieve the results they truly want to create in life. They really get excited about exactly what they desire for their lives or at least have a darn great idea around that concept, now deciding to act and seek the most excellent results for their lives. They will decide firmly and quickly that this is the major reason why they are here now at this moment knocking on my office door. I am pleased and honored to work with all people, going through all these stages of life and meeting you where you are today. However, for this group of people, they will stop at nothing to find the how. That answer is in the knowing. The world has a habit of making room for them as they seem to have the ability to communicate even without words. Their actions speak that they know exactly where they are going. Weakness or fear has not stopped them from seeking, finding and manifesting the pursuit of excellence, as they will question anything that attempts to stand in their way of accomplishing a fulfilled life.

It is indecision that has formed a habit which usually begins in our youth. Our school systems are not aware of how to teach nor encourage any type of definite decision making for our lives. It's no ones fault. As a result, we just begin to rationalize that this is all there is in life, and nothing more. This is good enough, why change it. This has worked well enough, why should we do anything outside of the box, or even dare to think that there could possibly be a perception of excellence.


Have you ever bought a car? If you did, you used your internal cues to create what that car looked like for you. You can see a picture of what you might want to purchase. A car, an suv, sports car, or something else. You don't know where the money is going to come from exactly, because you do not know what the salesperson will present to you for options, or even what is out there for purchase. Still, you can see it in your mind's eye. You strongly desire it. The vision along with the thought of finding a such vehicle keeps popping up now in your mind's eye. You find yourself starting to do some research, all the time you are making a mental pathway to buying that car. It's going to happen. You will find it. You begin to feel the power of searching through the web to find something like it. Then it begins. The body now follows through on the thought as you decide to put into action the concept of possessing that vehicle and begin to create that reality in the mind. From there you have found and manifested your car into your new reality. This is a small demonstration of how using the mind with the power of thought to create a new reality. While this is an example from the material world, (car buying) the effect is the same underlying universal law in the unseen world. Our perceptions are real to us. We have the power to create our reality in the best possible way that goes well and far beyond the physical world to enter into the non-physical side of human faculties. After all, did you ever stop to consider that you created a negative event in your mind, and it's just as powerful, but if that is true, it also might be true that it is just be possible that your wonderful mind could then also create a positive thought, habit, or behavior to achieve the most excellent side of your life? Emphatically yes!

If this all interests or intrigues you, I hope you will seek out more information here, then when you are ready, choose and decide you are truly worth the effort for the pursuit of excellence to take place in your life. A real human possibility. Everyone with a human brain that is functioning correctly, has the power to understand and act upon this internal authority.

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