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Informed Personal Decision

Hello. I'm Davidene Bender-Main, Master International Neuro Linguistic Practitioner. I want you to stop for a moment and think about why you're here right now reading this page full of words. A  self-directed short lived "feel good" program is for adults that want to be told what to do each step of the way to improve their life. Think about this concept. Is this what you need or want more of? If it isn't and you are tired of this form of "adult babysitting," then you have found the perfect place to transform what you are doing or not doing right now. While I am also trained as a certified life coach, and if that is truly what you need, I am happy to work with you on your goals, but ask yourself is that all that you need in order to make permanent changes in your life that just might need to happen to open those goals up and see the completion of them.

My program reaches people from all walks of life. Teachers, psychologists, counselors have come to see me. Executives, waiters, restaurant managers, policemen and women, stay at home moms, dads, and students, sales people, and more. You see, I have an international business. I am an International, Certified Master Neuro Linguistic practitioner. I talk to people all over the world. Does this mean, "wow you must be the best at NLP?" The answer is an emphatic "no."  However, I am proof. I am just as unique as you. No one can do what I do. No one can do what you do. The knowledge I have learned and continue to learn can be morphed to fit into most any situation to assist someone. It's about you! Not about what you do in life.

Have you ever stopped to wonder why some people that are quite successful and earn lots of money every year but according to what you may know about them is that many of them are not able to manage their own life to full potential. With that, I mean they are not satisfied internally. Many wasting life without knowing who they really are. Sad isn't it? I get asked most everyday, "what do you do that's different?" The answer is, I never stop learning and believing there is more. I keep finding more and more wonderful information, organize it and tailor it for you to be able to access it to build awareness to shift the individual paradigm for your life. Even though you are different from me, scientists will tell you that we have the same possible common thread to be able to achieve what greatness looks like for us. We have paradigms that are set by others genetically, along with internal programming that others in our lives have instilled within us, or we have possible told ourselves that prevent us from reaching our life fulfilled. What is great about this is to understand and realize you have power. The same power that is available to all of us. You have the capacity. All you need, really is to become open, and willing to accept it. Become able to do the work with yourself. There is no forcing greatness. There is no switch you can turn on and off. The truth is it takes a bit of work, but you can achieve it. It's already present in your life. The mechanism of the mind to work with your internal systems is where your personal power lies. Bet on yourself for a change. Become your own self development program not someone else's idea. Truth is you are you, not someone elses idea of who that is.

Have you ever wondered why there are some days you feel amazing, and other days you feel like you have no energy at all? Could it be that way because you have given your power of thought to some one or something that may not even be alive anymore? Please don't just dream that some program will create the path for you. Get honest with yourself, and let's get to work today. Do yourself a huge favor and stop seeking some coaching or self help program, that will tell you what to do and start doing it for yourself, right now. This isn't a dream or some robot course, it's real and it's possible.

                        "Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear." ~George Addair

"All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence"

~Martin Luther King Jr